By: Demetrius (Co-Founder of the OCPRS Toronto, Canada.)
Roads have often been used as metaphors for the journey of life and death. The perils of the roadways are very real. Death has come to be associated to roads and highways more often than life. It is for this reason that many people have come to associate superstitions with driving and travel. Even the Church recognizes patron saints of travellers, such as St. Christopher. Why the need for such intercessions if there wasn’t some truth to some of these superstitions and fears associated to roadways? It is not the superstitions that have motivated such saintly patronage, but there was something spiritual that turned people’s attentions onto the dangers of the roads. All over the world various side-roads and highways have come to be known as cursed or haunted.
Here in Ontario, Canada, there are a few such so-called cursed and haunted roadways. There was once a highway numbered 666 between the small community of Redditt and the city of Kenora, which was renumbered to Highway 658 following a Church petition. Like other roadways numbered with the 666, any travel along a route identified to the number of the Beast (Revelation 13:18) is thought to bring about misfortune or even fatal accidents. Included among stories about cursed roads are legends about crossroads, whereby suicide victims or hanged men were once consigned. These crossroads are also thought to be the locations where one can make an infernal pact with the devil. Certainly, there are many superstitions concerning the roads and highways around the world.
As for haunted roads, it is worth mentioning a popular legend found in Port Perry that supposedly goes back to 1968 about a motorcycle accident. Although there are no news reports from that time period to confirm such an accident, reports about a ghost motorcyclist are routinely made. A “ghost rider” is said to make an appearance in the night, on Mississauga Trail, where he then vanishes into thin air. Unsubstantiated stories like this one demonstrate a characteristic common to other urban legends.
Reports of “ghosts” manifesting as cars, trucks, or pedestrians have all been connected to various haunted roadways. Many of these reports are based on very real auto accidents, while others are completely unsupported tales. Among the varieties of stories reported, some of these phantom vehicles and pedestrians are said to warn other travellers, or serve as omens of death. Other roadway “ghosts” are thought to experience their tragic demise over, and over again. In regards to reports based on very real tragedies, one such account is known to Kirby Road, located in the suburban community of Maple, Ontario.
According to newspapers, on November 1, 1993, a group of teenage girls were driving in a minivan along Kirby Road. For uncertain reasons they lost control of their vehicle and crashed into a ditch. One of the girls was thrown from the vehicle and unfortunately died. Her name was Selina Degasperis (b. Jan. 15, 1978 – d. Nov. 1, 1993). She was 15 years of age. To honour Selina’s memory, a roadside memorial was erected by the side of the road. Unlike most roadside memorials marked by a wooden cross or flowers, the one found on Kirby Road is a tombstone. Selina’s memorial provides her first name, date of birth, and the day she died. There is also a peculiar inscription: “I’m a cute kid.” Roadside memorials are not uncommon, but somehow Selina’s memorial marker became a part of various urban legends.
What should be mentioned before exploring the urban legends of Kirby Road, is that there were no reports of “ghosts” or a haunted house before Selina’s tragedy. The urban legends explored here will be exposed for what they truly are. More importantly, these urban legends will be exposed for the dishonour they represent to the memory of a young girl, and to the family who loved her. It is for this reason that these legends must be addressed so that fact can be separated from fiction.
Many of the legends surrounding Kirby Road are inconsistent and often change, and this is owed to people who claim to have investigated Kirby Road. What has occurred through various “investigations” – conducted by paranormal enthusiasts – is that the urban legends have grown. Despite these so-called investigations, Selina’s roadside memorial remains somewhat consistent throughout all these sorted reports. Reports made by people exploring the urban legends have described an apparition of a little girl, who is eight or nine years of age with long dark coloured hair. Some people have claimed that she will appear if a car is parked nearby one of the homes located by Kirby Road. In such descriptions, Selina is thought to be that little girl. Other versions describe the same little girl sitting in a tree who will stare at the occupants of a parked car. What is obvious is that this could not be Selina Degasperis since she was fifteen years of age when she died and not eight or nine years old as described by people claiming to have seen the ghost of a little girl. The reports of an apparition of a little girl have become part of the overall urban legend of Kirby Road.
The most common story told concerns a farm house that has been named, “Hell House.” In this particular version, long ago, KKK meetings were held at this house. One day, the father of the family living in “Hell House” went mad and murdered his entire family, including his daughter who has been associated to Selina. According to the story, the father discovered that his daughter was dating a black man. Infuriated, he drove his truck up Kirby Road looking for her. When he found her walking along the side of the road he drove his truck over her, killing her. This part of the urban legend is owed to reports made by people “investigating” the Kirby Road urban legend, and who have claimed to have seen a phantom truck. Once again, all such reports have become a part of the overall urban legend surrounding Kirby Road. Of course, the previous mention of an eight or nine year old girl is not consistent with this version of the urban legend but is nonetheless circulated among people.
Whether or not the KKK actually held meetings in this area of Ontario remains unsubstantiated. What is certain, however, is that there were no meetings held by the KKK in that particular area during Selina’s lifetime. As for the rest of the “Hell House” story, there are no records of such a ghastly murder ever taking place there. Like all urban legends, sometimes real life tragedies are blended with fiction, and Selina’s tragedy is the only real incident recognized among these urban legends. A few other versions of the legend have claimed that Selina’s death was caused by other “ghosts” from the so-called “Hell House,” but such claims are desperate attempts to promote Kirby Road as haunted.
It becomes obvious that Selina Degasperis and her memory have been done a great injustice by these foolish urban legends. In addition to the disrespect to her memory, these urban legends promote an unhealthy interest in “ghosts” and the supernatural. Kirby Road is not haunted. The investigation conducted by the OCPRS found no paranormal activity at any of the locations associated to the urban legends. What people need to take into consideration about these stories about Selina is that they may be hurtful to her surviving family. Hopefully the investigation by the OCPRS will help make people aware of this problem. If anything can be learned from these stories about Kirby Road it is how such urban legends perpetuate misguided perceptions about real life tragedies. The roadside memorial to Selina should remind people that a real human being lost her life, and to caution people about the dangers of the roadways – not superstitions!
Most highways and side-roads thought to be cursed or haunted are just misguided stories. The stories surrounding Kirby Road have much in common with other urban legends of the roads and highways. How many more roadway “ghost” stories are therefore true? It is the opinion of the OCPRS Toronto, Canada, that any such story may contain details that are true, but such details are ultimately twisted into fiction. This is not to say that certain phenomenon does not occur on the roadways. Certainly there could be paranormal phenomena taking place on the roadways of the world, but the urban legends about Kirby Road are simply not true.
Archie26
June 19, 2011
Archie26 was here 🙂
Annonomous
November 26, 2011
…if you actually believe that then tell me why did i stare at a younge girl , crying in pain. i wanted to help her and i couldnt. so do me a fav TAKE THIS ARTICLE DOWN
ONTARIO CATHOLIC PARANORMAL RESEARCH SOCIETY (Toronto, Canada)
November 26, 2011
Annonomous? Well, let me see if I understand you. You saw a girl crying and in pain? How about you do me a favour and explain who you believe that girl is?
As for taking down the article. No dice!
Larissa
December 7, 2011
I personally didnt really believe in any of these things that were told to me about this road, however my friends and I were up there last night by Selina’s house ( not the hell house) we drove through the pathway and sat there for a bit and saw absolutely nothing then we read a story about a little girl sitting in the second tree as you pull in. We pulled there turned our car off and put our hands on our laps to make sure no one was playing around. We sit there for a few minutes then we hear these random footsteps around the car followed by tapping on our car. It freaked us all out a bit but we stayed calm thinking it could be anything. We sat in the car, i had my arm up by the window blocking the window the whole time, we all had the feeling that something was standing there staring at us. We were all very quiet and no one was even moving. Were all looking down the driveway at this time and all the sudden the car light on my side goes on. The car was completly off at this time and and if someone flicked the lights off we would of heard it ( we tested it out after to see ). As soon as that happened we slowly drove backwards off the path and onto the street, as were pulling away we see the girl in a white dress with long black hair standing there watching us leave.
ONTARIO CATHOLIC PARANORMAL RESEARCH SOCIETY (Toronto, Canada)
December 10, 2011
Hi there,
Just want to point out that Selina Degasperis never lived there, so I’m not sure why you call that location “Selina’s house”?
As for the rest of what happened, that is indeed strange.
srugby102
February 3, 2012
Hi there Larissa
I have been doing some research on this topic and may want to use this as my topic for a school documentary. your experience is very interesting and could be useful in the documentary please email me at clts0085@humbermail.ca if you are interested.
Thank You
Steve
December 20, 2011
I like in the Maple area and I’ve always been interested in this ‘story’. Where exactly is the Hell House located? Is it still there? Also, where is this ‘Selina’s House’ located? Would love to check them out.
Thanks.
cool guy bowles
April 10, 2012
i am just wondering if the hell house is still standing? the other night i was driving down kirby and found this small driveway, it was small cause the bushes over grown. i went down the driveway to find ruins of what it looked like a house mind you there was stuff all over the ground due to someone tore down what ever was standing there plus the two dumpters and skid steers i parked my car and sat there no tapping on my car or anything like that i have heard about. But when i rolled down the window all i heard was a little girls voice say leave i sat there for another 10 minutes and no sights of a ghost girl but i have a feeling that was the remains of the hell house i hear many rumours that its been torn down now. Any information would be great i just want to know if it has been torn down because i would love to go back there during the day to explore the place.
ONTARIO CATHOLIC PARANORMAL RESEARCH SOCIETY (Toronto, Canada)
April 15, 2012
Hi Cool Guy Bowles,
The “Hell House” is in ruins now.
Did you try an EVP session during your night vigil there?
When you heard the word “leave” (what you say sounded like a little girl) was it a clear statement? Did you know what direction the statement came from? Could it have been a female voice (of the actual land owner who was asking you to literally get off their property?).
Thanks for sharing your experience.
hope heaven
June 7, 2012
i went to the farm with a few friends last night, & the curtains at the farm was moving and there was a shadow figure moving.. and we heard a gun shot but noone was there… we also went to selinas tomb stone & did see a girl black shadow beside the tree looking at us .. and the bridge we were at, we parked and our car wouldnt turn off.. like we took the keys out and it was still showing the gas meter & stuff
ONTARIO CATHOLIC PARANORMAL RESEARCH SOCIETY (Toronto, Canada)
June 9, 2012
So, you saw curtains moving at the farm house that is no longer there? And you saw a black shadow of a girl by the tombstone beside a tree (which I should mention, there are no trees beside the tombstone)?
Can you re-explain your statement, otherwise its just not believable.
DONTWANNALEAVEMYNAME
June 7, 2012
My friends and I went to the hell house..
there was 6 of us, including me. As soon as we walked up to it we saw the curtains in the window moving n a balck figure poke its head were the curtain was… I ran but my friends didn’t
so i stopped looked back. Then we all heard a loud bang..
Thats when we all run to our cars. I’m gonna go back there so more ppl believe it, beccause that was an unforgatable experience..
they probably were pissed at us because only 2 of my friends were full white
the rest of us mixed or different backrounds
Santana
September 24, 2012
Selina’s family lived around kirby road, as do a lot of people to this day. The accident happened on a school day and it did involve a van with a bunch of teenage girls inside. I live close to Kirby road, and personally do not believe any of these stories. It’s sad that people have made her tragedy into a joke. The stories of KKK etc .. not true. Those are just old homes that have been abandoned. A lot of young people hang out there and this is where the vandalism comes from inside the homes. I have been there many times, I have friends that live on that very street and never have I ever seen anything weird or paranormal. Sorry to those of you who think you saw something, but sometimes if you really believe something to be real your eyes and your mind can play tricks on you.
Luna
April 8, 2013
Is the house and barn still there? It looks like it’s gone …
We checked the 1st road to the left of 400 going East and there was nothing but the yellow gates…
ONTARIO CATHOLIC PARANORMAL RESEARCH SOCIETY (Toronto, Canada)
April 13, 2013
Hello Luna,
No, they are no longer there. I would like to remind you that if you go past those yellow gates, you will be trespassing on private property and the neighbors there will most likely call the police (and rightfully so).
Besides, why did you want to go to a house that was never haunted?
Dakota
May 6, 2013
Hey, just thought id share my expirience at Kirby road. The 1st time i went there with a couple of buds we couldnt even find the place so we just left, the 2nd time we managed to find the place so we pulled up infront of the driveway entrance and i got out to do some exploring and especially to find “Selenas” tombstone. Unfortunately i couldnt find the tombstone but while looking for it i heard a girl screaming in the field , sounded like a young women but i didnt see anyone so i went past the gate and headed up the drive way to the house when i see something go past in the fields which simply could have been an animal or shadow of a tree. Overall it was a pretty creepy expirience, the vibes in the area were horrible.
melissa mihalis
July 18, 2013
My dad knew the girl Selena before she died. She was in a car accident when she was 15 when she was not wearing her seat belt and flew through the windshield. That’s not a tomb stone. She died on that road but instead of putting flowers they put a stone and wrote the “im a cute kid” because she said that a lot when she was alive. her dads company did the heating and air conditioning for my high school. She has nothing to do with the houses. Those have there own stories but Selena was an average girl with nothing creepy to her. She died November 1 1993. THE HOUSE IS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER. the only true mystery about the house is that the previous owners are unknown before 2003. my mom works in property and leasing and she couldn’t find the original owners which is very unusual.
ONTARIO CATHOLIC PARANORMAL RESEARCH SOCIETY (Toronto, Canada)
August 6, 2013
Hello Melissa, thank you for your perspective on this issue. Need more people like you to speak out.
mizz_ginaa
July 30, 2013
I went last night with 3 friends friends last night and I am quite disgusted with the stories that have been formed around the memorial. The stories I heard was that a father had went crazy and killed the family one night and the little girls escaped the from the house and ran up the street and the father caught up to her on the side of the road and killed her which is why the memorial is there. I am happy to know the truth behind the story. And besides it just being a typical dark creepy road the scariest thing that happened was under the bridge my friend decided to turn the car and the light off and then just stalled the car re starting it.
Dan
October 19, 2013
Hello, i’ve been to her tombstone. There’s nothing creepy about the area, but this was in daytime. The cornfield behind the stone is what is quite creepy. In any sense, if someone could tell me where exactly this drive way is? I am not looking to trespass, but to just see what the location seems like. Thank you.
ONTARIO CATHOLIC PARANORMAL RESEARCH SOCIETY (Toronto, Canada)
October 19, 2013
Hi Dan,
I have posted a youtube video and in that video there is a map. It is the driveway before HWY 400 as I recall.
If you really must see the location for yourself I don’t see the harm in stopping by the driveway.
Cheers!
Principessa Morticia
October 16, 2014
I am a few years behind on this however, I don’t believe the sightings people are seeing or feelings they are feeling have anything to do with the Late Selina or “HELL HOUSE” events. These lands were used by Natives way before anything was documented. People maybe hearing,seeing, feeling residual events in the area going far back to when the land was being used by Natives. Keep in mind not to far from Kirby on Teston Rd. Native burial grounds were discovered which I believe that the area and surroundings were used as sacred Native lands.. So maybe people are hearing a girl , or seeing a girl, but it may very well be a Native soul not Selina… Bless the Family & Friends of Selina because the talk & tales of her more likely are making it harder for them to grieve and adjust even after 21years. ❤